Has anyone out there had family disagree with your purchases? I'm looking at getting the ITS Crew Cover hat, from ITS. My fiance thinks its "too operator", which too a degree I understand, but I'm looking for a place to put some sweeeet patches. And since my new move to Tx, I feel like the patterns on these hats are a bit more acceptable than Southern California.. But I digress.. She has a brother and sister in the military, so I get where she's coming from.. But it is my head.. Anyone else have these problems?